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	<title>Comments on: DEAR SUGAR, The Rumpus Advice Column #45: Thwack, Thwack, Thwack</title>
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		<title>By: @TheGirlPie</title>
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		<dc:creator>@TheGirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 23:12:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s all in that first reaction.

He slammed the door because her face was surprised, rather than aroused, or welcoming, or smiling, or grateful, or or or --- 

Not that anyone can plan for &quot;how to react when surprised by something you can&#039;t process in time&quot; -- it&#039;s not her fault. But just the fact that her reaction wasn&#039;t what he wished for, wanted, didn&#039;t know he wanted... 

I doubt it was his first time, doubt he felt any shame in the wearing, just the freak-out of her surprise arrival followed by the missing reaction from her that might&#039;ve made it all right... 
There&#039;s a look, a heavy-lidded desire that comes to the face, 
a flush of arousal and 
an involuntary response that occurs before thinking starts, 
before even surprise begins... 
If he&#039;d seen/felt/sensed that the sight of him was as good for her as the sensation of the smooth constriction of panties was for him, well, that&#039;s another story... one closer to your own amusing and familiar tale of tail... Good for you, too bad for her -- 

But it&#039;s none of my business. Not here, at least...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s all in that first reaction.</p>
<p>He slammed the door because her face was surprised, rather than aroused, or welcoming, or smiling, or grateful, or or or &#8212; </p>
<p>Not that anyone can plan for &#8220;how to react when surprised by something you can&#8217;t process in time&#8221; &#8212; it&#8217;s not her fault. But just the fact that her reaction wasn&#8217;t what he wished for, wanted, didn&#8217;t know he wanted&#8230; </p>
<p>I doubt it was his first time, doubt he felt any shame in the wearing, just the freak-out of her surprise arrival followed by the missing reaction from her that might&#8217;ve made it all right&#8230;<br />
There&#8217;s a look, a heavy-lidded desire that comes to the face,<br />
a flush of arousal and<br />
an involuntary response that occurs before thinking starts,<br />
before even surprise begins&#8230;<br />
If he&#8217;d seen/felt/sensed that the sight of him was as good for her as the sensation of the smooth constriction of panties was for him, well, that&#8217;s another story&#8230; one closer to your own amusing and familiar tale of tail&#8230; Good for you, too bad for her &#8212; </p>
<p>But it&#8217;s none of my business. Not here, at least&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: ayse</title>
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		<dc:creator>ayse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 23:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;But it feels just like home&quot; is actually one of the sweetest things I ever heard. Another stellar column, Sugar. xo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;But it feels just like home&#8221; is actually one of the sweetest things I ever heard. Another stellar column, Sugar. xo</p>
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		<title>By: Miranda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miranda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 21:58:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are such an astonishingly good writer, I have chills. Chills, woman. Thank you for sharing your gift.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are such an astonishingly good writer, I have chills. Chills, woman. Thank you for sharing your gift.</p>
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		<title>By: Meghan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meghan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 21:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I read things like this, it reminds me of why I write. There is such a Godlike connection that occurs between writer and reader when the writer harnesses the power of words so well that they accurately express some pure fucking piece of human existence.

You are such a writer, Sugar.

Keep on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I read things like this, it reminds me of why I write. There is such a Godlike connection that occurs between writer and reader when the writer harnesses the power of words so well that they accurately express some pure fucking piece of human existence.</p>
<p>You are such a writer, Sugar.</p>
<p>Keep on.</p>
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		<title>By: betsy</title>
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		<dc:creator>betsy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 20:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, Sugar.  Sometimes you scare the shit out of me.  In a good way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, Sugar.  Sometimes you scare the shit out of me.  In a good way.</p>
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		<title>By: rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 19:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Sugar, I hope I find a Mr. Sugar of my own and that he is as brave and wonderful and ridiculously hot and wise as you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Sugar, I hope I find a Mr. Sugar of my own and that he is as brave and wonderful and ridiculously hot and wise as you.</p>
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