BDSM, like writing, can be so self-serious. By letting go of my formal commitment to both, I found ways to release my expectations, and as a result, let them back into my life in healthier and more fulfilling ways.
Carina Finn is the author of several collection of poetry, including LEMONWORLD & Other Poems (Co.Im.Press), Invisible Reveille (Coconut Books), and The Grey Bird: Thirteen Emoji Poems In Translation (Coconut Books). Her first full-length play, Two Genius Husbands, has been workshopped at Dixon Place and Howl! Happening in NYC. You can learn more about her work @carinafinn and carinafinn.com.