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Jacqueline Woodson and the End of the World

  • P.E. Garcia
  • December 12, 2014
I think I was pretty nervous about it as a kid. I think I did [have] that fear of the world coming to an end. I think also it’s kind…
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Second Chance

  • Chance Lee
  • October 24, 2014
Complete strangers often ask me how I got my name. They think this is an acceptable question. But for me, for the longest time, it was like being asked to tell the origin story of a scar.
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For Lack of Anything Better

  • Dave Madden
  • October 21, 2014
The curse of being a writer is knowing other people. I need other people (to write about) but I can’t handle other people (the way I can literary characters).
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Forsaken

  • Bryan Washington
  • September 8, 2014
Over at Rolling Stone, Alex Morris gives us vignettes from dystopian lifestyles; all of them from teenagers that’ve just “come-out”: So while Jackie hoped for the best, she knew the…
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Boy’s Club

  • Edgar Gomez
  • July 16, 2014
When I say I am not like other gay men, I mean I am not like this man. I am not loose. I don’t just let things happen. But still I want to take him in my arms and kiss him on the cheek. If I am not here to have sex, then what am I here for?
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Ice, Ice Baby: A Cool Conversation with Bobby J. Robby, Stripper by Day, Drag King by Night

  • Antonia Crane
  • June 25, 2014
Bobby J. Robby talks about labor issues, gender identity, and the perils of dating other dancers.
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When Life and Art Get Messy

  • Lyz Lenz
  • May 22, 2014
A writer for Orange is the New Black talks about discovering she was gay while writing for the show: Accordingly, I was nervous about the first love scene I’d written…
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Coming Out, Again and Again, in 27 Easy Steps

  • Rafe Posey
  • September 24, 2013
1. Pretend it’s okay that your birth certificate labels you as female. You know perfectly well you’re not.
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Evangelical, Pastor, Gay, Out… What Now?

  • Kyle Minor
  • July 21, 2010
Sometimes around dusk (I was probably six or seven years old), I would look out my bedroom window and see the sky turning orange and purple, and the setting sun…
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