Jennifer Gilbert holds an MFA in creative nonfiction from Vermont College of Fine Arts, and is working on a memoir about the subject she’s explored here, and an essay on kink and birthing was recently published in Cosmopolitan. She is the proprietress of Kink Coaching, where she helps clients integrate sexual deviance into their lives and relationships. Currently she’s enrolled in a noncredit immersion intensive on how to mother infant twin boys. You can find her online at Spelunking the Psyche and Twitter.