Interviews

I’m never in a hurry for a piece of writing to wrap up. And I almost never know how it will end.

Life’s weird. There’s reality in other places. I really like fiction and media that play with that strangeness.

I feel strongly that our personal histories are made complete by their various discrepancies, not undermined by them.

. . . There is a lot of horror and horrible things about it, but there is also a lot of grace and things that show how strong people can be. It’s really the whole gamut of humanity.

Emotions don’t change, we all know love and joy. We all know pain. We all know “trying to find love.”

Failure is an inevitable part of the process. The faster you get through your failure, the faster you’ll get to the end.

I had to change the parameters of what I thought success was. Success might be a plate of eggs with toast or a talk on the curb. Sometimes the most simple thing is the thing that makes the difference. I

I do think that a stranger’s vantage point can be valuable and create interesting reflections or ideas, but it feels important to doing that in a way that was ethical.

These are writers who didn’t want to hide anymore. Instead, they knew how important it was to share their stories.

We’ve all had that feeling where we’ve felt unseen. I think that’s a big part of this book. Maybe what was taken away from us was attention.

Each adoptee has experiences that make their story unique. It’s important to understand that adoption is not a one-size-fits-all kind of situation.