Everything Must Change: A Conversation with Melissa Febos
Melissa Febos discusses her new essay collection, GIRLHOOD.
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Join NOW!Melissa Febos discusses her new essay collection, GIRLHOOD.
...moreI always thought I was too smart to be one of those girls.
...moreErica C. Barnett discusses her debut memoir, QUITTER.
...moreThe thing we most had in common was that none of us wanted to be there.
...moreI’m saying people can be imperfect and still be remembered as beautiful.
...moreI’ve known since I was a child that the world is ending. I felt it in my bones.
...moreMy sobriety is still a mystery to me. Forty years this December.
...moreDrinking is the opposite of staying.
...moreWhat I know has taken a long time to learn, and even longer to accept.
...moreAs long as I could feel, I was going to get high.
...moreWhy was he so broken? And why did his broken make me feel broken, too?
...moreBut we can make choices if we want to live. I believe that.
...moreThat’s how I felt again, then: a child suddenly fallen, helpless. Unable even to breathe.
...moreThe truth is different. The truth is always different.
...moreTina Alexis Allen discusses her memoir, HIDING OUT.
...moreAs recovering addicts, we must love ourselves back to the source, love our shameful bits and decimations and not just our reconciliations and resurrections.
...moreIntellectually, I know Gracie’s mom loves her and needs help. In practice, I just want my daughter safe.
...moreLeslie Jamison discusses The Recovering: Intoxication and Its Aftermath, understanding that every text is incomplete, and whether motherhood has changed her writing.
...moreIf you’re judging your characters, you’re not doing it right. I’ll always be grateful to [Denis] Johnson for teaching me that.
...moreI know that there are those who would argue that alcoholism is a singularly extreme condition, and I get that, but I’ve always felt clear that there’s a lot of overlap between alcoholism and plain old ordinary humanity.
...moreJoshua Mohr discusses his memoir Sirens, writing for his daughter, and why he values art that trusts its audience.
...moreWhat I’m saying is I was a fucking wreck and it’s not my dad’s fault.
...moreMila Jaroniec talks about her debut novel Plastic Vodka Bottle Sleepover,” writing autofiction, the surprising similarity between selling sex toys and selling books, and the impact of having a baby on editing.
...moreTrying to protect him from himself is like trying to protect atmosphere from weather.
...morePerhaps part of what prompted me to get clean and sober was the fact I kept making myself uncomfortable.
...moreIn “Hunting For The Little Prince,” Sigal Samuel invites us to tag along as she pursues the real-life inspiration for the blonde-haired protagonist of Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s famous children’s book. No spoilers, but this particular missing person search ends happily. Then, in the Sunday Essay, Rob Roberge tackles his demons and the continuing fallout from […]
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